Venus compatibility

Since I was doing the Venus report, I came across a theory that, while some people, myself included, compare Suns for compatibility it might be even better to look to Venus instead. I only knew to compare using the sun, but the venus actually makes more sense.

One thing my ex always told me is that we were always on different pages when it came to communication. She doesn't believe in this stuff at all. I find this more fun than anything, but I'm always up for funny coincidences. If only we were both more aware of how different our styles were, maybe things would have turned out differently. Probably not, but there's always the chance!

How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Pisces

How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Pisces: The attraction can be intense at first, but your inherent differences in matters of the heart might get the better of your relationship in the long run. With understanding and patience, however, this partnership can be very rewarding. You are more than likely the one to take the lead in this relationship. Your partner can be somewhat shy and unsure with someone new, but very charming indeed. He or she has a dreamy quality that can be very enticing. But this very quality that hooks your interest in your partner in the first place, might get you impatient once the novelty fades away! Your partner's elusiveness and downright evasiveness stands in stark contrast to your style of expressing love—so much so that it could seem completely alien to you. You are direct and forthright with your partners, and usually appreciate the same in others. Your partner doesn't always seem very clear, and this confuses you. If the love is there, all that is needed is the understanding that you and your partner express love in distinctly different ways. As well, you should know that your lover enjoys understatement in romance. Your bluntness may be appreciated by less sensitive souls, but this one can find it difficult to understand. Your partner, in turn, should learn to appreciate knowing exactly where he or she stands with you! You have much to offer each other once you get past the matter of differing love "styles".

It doesn't say that we were not compatible, only that there is a lot figuring out to do. We would apparently have needed a ton of effort in that area because our communication styles are so different. I say there is no "apparently". We had to do it. We both have acknowledged that we just weren't on the same page. We have such different styles of communication that she felt like she was talking to a brick wall and I felt the same. I really try to learn this stuff as only a fun side hobby, but when there is such a parallel between a generic reading based on my sign and real life, it gets you thinking. At the very least it gives me perspective. It helps me put my feelings into words, when before it was so difficult. Unfortunately, it's a little too late now, but this was a pretty cool coincidence to stumble on.